Under Pressure! (copied with permission)
I attended your seminar at UCR yesterday, and it was excellent. I hope you might be able to assist me. My husband left our home over a year ago, has not contributed anything, and I am in the process of getting a divorce. I am paying for the home loan, taxes, etc. At the advice of my attorney I’ve had the house listed for sale for nearly 6 months but it will never sell since it is turned around, and I owe more than it’s worth. I believe my husband will probably sign the deed over to me. Several months ago I called Countrywide and they said they will not consider a modification because my husband’s name is on the loan. They actually advised me to just let the house go, shortsale, or do what ever because I’ll never qualify. I have made all payments, have a FICO score of over 750, and refuse to ruin my credit since I’ve worked my entire life to pay my debts and be a good neighbor and citizen. And this is my family home; not just a house. The remaining loan is $425,000, currently have a 4.65% interest rate, and an ARM due in May 2009. My monthly payments are $2394, and I pay $2400 (a little bit extra) each month. No one so far is willing to work with me as I dont qualify for any of the modifications, etc. There is no equity in the home to refi. Like many middle class people I’ve lost thousands in our 401K, and 403B. So I dont have another $60,000 to put down for to refi. I’m not looking to have my debt erased. I plan to pay everything I owe. All I would like is a fixed affordable rate, and the loan adjusted to even perhaps a 40 yr mortgage, or whatever it takes. I am hoping that a lender will work with me. I have a beautiful family home. My current income is about $53,000 and my grown son lives in the home and contributes about $1000 a month. I have NO other debt other than the home. I keep hearing about all these measures to help people who are in foreclosure, all their debt forgiven. and they walk away not owing a dime?? Yet, I’ve made every payment, work many hours a week to pay for my home, but every door is closed in my face and I’ve paid my debts when due. Your assistance or advice will be appreciated.

